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Bandile Matsenjwa

Your love for yourself sets the tone/ frequency for others.

Not loving ourselves actually hurts us and everybody else who cares. If we don’t take care of ourselves and show ourselves true love, the…

3 min readJul 31, 2019

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Your love for yourself sets the tone/ frequency for others.

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Bandile Matsenjwa

The past is the past.

Don’t forget who picked up your call at 2am and who treated you like a nontity. It doesn’t matter if other people have it “worse”than you…

2 min readApr 6, 2019

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Bandile Matsenjwa

What Came After You

A former drifting vagabond, I roamed, condemned to wandering solitude. The profound isolation of being with the wrong person is worse than…

4 min readFeb 7, 2019

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What Came After You

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Bandile Matsenjwa

Intimacy in a relationship

A lot of people in some parts of the world are debating about this. Some couples are blue ticking each other because of this, and maybe…

3 min readOct 13, 2018

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Intimacy in a relationship

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Bandile Matsenjwa

When actions speak louder than words.

The silent walks The blue ticks The "I'm going out with my friends" Say everything we just don’t wanna admit About the state of our…

2 min readMay 24, 2018

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When actions speak louder than words.

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Bandile Matsenjwa

But this friendzone

A couple chats and drinks have never worked. But When the drinks start early enough, it turns into stronger things. There’s always more…

3 min readMay 20, 2018

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But this friendzone

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Bandile Matsenjwa

Love alone, is never enough.

I was told that love is one of the most wonderful feelings in the world,

3 min readMay 9, 2018

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Love alone, is never enough.

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Bandile Matsenjwa

For You.

Let your destiny be framed with mine in an opaque gray box that no one is looking at anymore. Let me delude myself with your carefree eyes…

2 min readFeb 23, 2018

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For You.

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Bandile Matsenjwa

Let’s Talk About Toxic Relationships

It’s been a while, and I’m pretty sure most of my beta readers are engulfed by the festive spirits. My beautiful Swazi readers have been…

2 min readDec 17, 2017

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Let’s Talk About Toxic Relationships

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Bandile Matsenjwa

The Words I Have No Nerves To Tell You

I am a hopeless romantic. I have thoughts and visions in my head about my future love and who it will be with. I know it’s unrealistic to…

2 min readNov 8, 2017

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The Words I Have No Nerves To Tell You

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Bandile Matsenjwa

Bandile Matsenjwa

all these miscommunications, now I miss communications. I am a discordant simile, a multifaceted heartbeat beating in iambic pentameter.

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