When Forgiveness Isn’t A Virtue

Ijeoma Oluo
The Establishment
Published in
7 min readDec 16, 2015

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By Ijeoma Oluo

As a survivor of sexual abuse and assault, and as an advocate for survivors of abuse and assault, I hear a lot about forgiveness. I am forwarded stories on the power of forgiveness, I’m lectured on the need for forgiveness, I’m offered lessons on forgiveness.

But I also hear about forgiveness from survivors of physical, sexual, and emotional abuse.

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Ijeoma Oluo
The Establishment

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